21 March 2013

The Art of Deep Listening


Somehow, up till now, I never equated listening with meditation. But think about it, it truly is the art of listening.

In the most basic sense meditation is an expansive awareness (an intense state of presence) that gives the less audible parts of ourselves a chance to be heard.

I personally have never found listening easy. The whirring of my mind tends to get in the way of being present, preventing me from experiencing the surrender and receptiveness that characterize it.

This is why meditation is so important, key to a life of vitality and connection. Meditation is where we learn how to listen--deeply.

The practice of meditation, as I see it, is a sanctuary for deepening our relationship to ourselves, to the universe and to one another. Meditation practice helps us ground ourselves in being—the reality of our actual lives.

When we meditate, anytime we find we have drifted off into thought, we acknowledge the thinking and return to just being aware and breathing—no judgment, no clinging to thought. Gradually the thinking of the ego subsides and settles, allowing for a more spacious awareness—presence—to bloom.

And what is listening if not the act of being truly awake and present?

I dare not speak of it any more than this as I am merely an amateur, but I encourage you all to do your own research into the art of deep listening to see what makes sense to you.

Jon Kabat-Zinn’s, Wherever You Go There You Are is a classic and a great place to start.