A source
of great personal irritation is the societal tendency to see matters sensual and
spiritual as mutually exclusive—as bearing absolutely no relationship to each
other. This in spite of the fact that both are fundamental urges, potentially
ecstatic and integral to all existence.
The sensual and
the spiritual are not dichotomized in nature. Animals and plants live with the
two deeply and profoundly intertwined.
It seems the human propensity for abstraction has allowed us to
conceptually separate them, and, thus, literalize a false separation between
the two.
So, where's the life in that?!
So, where's the life in that?!
Historically, the Hindu religion treated matters sensual as necessary to a
spiritual life—part of divine experience. The Kama Sutra is the famous text outlining recommendations on how to
live a virtuous and gracious life, which includes its sensual aspect.
When one really
stops to think about it, this is just common sense. However, in the West, it seems
practically revolutionary.
Here, the arbitrary
separation of the two creates a whole world of misunderstanding where the true
nature of sensuality and spirituality are concerned.
Humanity is
hard-wired for the sensual pleasures of life and the search for meaning in mystery. They are both essential
elements. The trick is to manage them in such a way that they
edify life, rather than destroy it.
Which is to say,
somewhere between the moralizing extremes of prim stuffiness on the one hand,
and unbridled, undisciplined self-indulgence on the other, lies spiritual and
sensual satisfaction.
I don’t mean to propose a boring balance between the two, just a slightly more studied approach
leading in the direction of intelligence, vitality and warmth.
This way we avoid the extremes of a burning heat which will only melt our wings, and the icy chill rendering them rigid, brittle and frozen.
This way we avoid the extremes of a burning heat which will only melt our wings, and the icy chill rendering them rigid, brittle and frozen.
Need I say more?
We can be
sensual and spiritual at the same time. They are what an ecstatic and integral
life are composed of.
Take two and call me in the morning …
P.S.
This is a lovely video which nicely illustrates what I mean by sensual AND spiritual. Enjoy!